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1-3 YEARS 

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Welcome to the toddler years.

This stage is full of growth, independence, and big emotions. Toddlers begin walking, climbing, talking, solving problems, and exploring the world with growing confidence. They also enjoy pretend play, helping with simple tasks, and learning new skills every day.

Big feelings are a normal part of development as toddlers learn to communicate, manage emotions, and understand the world around them.

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1-3 Years Milestones

Development in how children use and control their bodies. Including muscle and motor skills. 

Physical

  • Takes a few steps on own.

  • Uses fingers to feed self some food.

  • Walks without holding on.

  • Scribbles.

  • Drinks from cup without lid (may spill).

  • Feeds self with fingers.

  • Tries to use a spoon.

  • Climbs on/off couch or chair without help.

  • Kicks a ball.

  • Runs.

  • Walks up a few stairs with/without help.

  • Eats with a spoon.

  • Uses hands to twist things (doorknobs, lids).

  • Takes some clothes off by self.

  • Jumps off ground with both feet.

  • Turns book pages one at a time.

  • Buttons some buttons.

  • Hops on one foot.

  • Balances on one foot briefly.

  • Climbs stairs one foot at a time.

  • Rides tricycle with feet pushing.

  • Uses utensils and cup independently.

  • Strings large beads.

  • Pours water with help.

  • Unbuttons some buttons.

  • Catches large ball with two hands.

Social & Emotional

  • Copies other children while playing.

  • Shows you an object they like.

  • Claps when excited.

  • Hugs stuffed doll or toy.

  • Shows affection (hugs, kisses).

  • Moves away but checks in with you.

  • Points to show interesting things.

  • Puts hands out for washing.

  • Looks at pages in book with you.

  • Helps dress by pushing arm through sleeve.

  • Notices when others hurt/upset.

  • Looks at face to react in new situation.

  • Plays next to others, sometimes with them.

  • Says “Look at me!”.

  • Follows simple routines when told.

  • Calms down within 10 minutes after you leave.

  • Notices/joins other children in play.

  • Shows empathy (comforts others).

  • Displays independence (“I do it”).

  • Begins cooperative play with guidance.

  • Expresses wider range of emotions.

  • Shows pleasure in mastering tasks.

  • Seeks approval from adults.

Cognitive

  • Tries to use things the right way (phone, cup).

  • Stacks at least two small objects.

  • Copies doing chores (sweeping).

  • Plays with toys in simple way (pushing car).

  • Holds something in one hand while using other.

  • Tries switches, knobs, buttons on toy.

  • Plays with more than one toy at once.

  • Draws a circle.

  • Avoids hot objects when warned.

  • Uses things to pretend (feeds block to doll).

  • Shows simple problem-solving (stands on stool to reach).

  • Follows two-step instructions.

  • Knows at least one color.

  • Counts to 10.

  • Names numbers between 1-5 when pointed to.

  • Uses words about time (“yesterday”).

  • Pays attention 5-10 minutes during activities.

  • Writes some letters in name.

  • Names some letters when pointed to.

  • Solves problems using objects as tools.

  • Follows simple one-step instructions.

  • Matches similar objects or colors.

  • Begins pretend play.

  • Sorts by color or size.

  • Understands basic concepts (“big” vs. “small”).

  • Shows increasing understanding of consequences.

Communication

  • Tries to say 1-2 words besides “mama/dada”.

  • Looks at familiar object when named.

  • Follows directions with gesture and words.

  • Points to ask for something/get help.

  • Tries 3+ words besides “mama/dada”.

  • Follows one-step directions without gestures.

  • Points to things in book when asked.

  • Says at least two words together.

  • Points to at least two body parts.

  • Uses more gestures (blowing kiss, nodding).

  • Says about 50 words.

  • Says two+ words with one action.

  • Names things in book when pointed/asked.

  • Says words like “I”, “me”, “we”.

  • Talks with 2+ back-and-forth exchanges.

  • Asks “who/what/where/why”.

  • Says action happening in picture (“running”).

  • Says first name when asked.

  • Talks well enough for others to understand most time.

  • Uses short sentences.

  • Asks simple questions.

  • Joins conversations.

  • Uses gestures with intention to meet goals.

  • Takes turns in back-and-forth vocal play.

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Our Favourite Toys for This Stage

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Animals & People

  • Encourages imaginative play and storytelling

  • Builds language and communication skills

  • Supports social-emotional development and early categorization

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Play Food & Cookware

  • Encourages imaginative play and everyday life skills

  • Builds communication and social skills

  • Supports creativity and independence

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Train Set

  • Builds hand-eye coordination

  • Encourages cause-and-effect play

  • Supports problem-solving and exploration

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Dress Up Clothes

  • Encourages creativity and imaginative play

  • Builds confidence and self-expression

  • Supports social-emotional development

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Playdough 

  • Encourages planning and early construction skills

  • Builds patience through trial and error

  • Inspires storytelling and imaginative play

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Washable Paint Sticks

  • Builds fine motor control

  • Encourages creativity and self-expression

  • Introduces colours and early mark-making

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LEGO Duplo

  • Builds fine motor skills and coordination

  • Encourages creativity and problem-solving

  • Supports early building and pretend play

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Playdough 

  • Strengthens fine motor skills and hand muscles

  • Encourages creativity and sensory exploration

  • Supports early pre-writing skills

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Puppets

  • Builds language and listening skills

  • Supports social-emotional learning

  • Encourages creativity and self-expression

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